Birth Date: 1944-12-14

Graduation year: 1962

Deceased Date: 2024-12-03

Obituary:
Robert Fabbricatore
December 14, 1944 — December 3, 2024
Altamonte Springs

Robert Lee Fabbricatore, aged 79 of Altamonte Springs, Florida, passed away on December 3, 2024. Mr. Fabbricatore, known as “Fab” or Bob to friends was born and raised in Ithaca, New York. He was the son of the late Francis and Catherine Stockwell Fabbricatore who met as Cornell students and stayed in Ithaca after graduation, and brother of the late John Fabbricatore. His father came to Cornell from Brooklyn and his mother was from Oneida, New York. At some point, Fab referred to this as “Vito Corleone met Mary Poppins.” He graduated from Ithaca High School and Cornell University. At Ithaca High School, Fab played baseball, football and basketball. He was the shortstop on the championship teams of 1960, 1961, and 1962 and was named the All STC shortstop his Junior and Senior years and was selected to represent Section IV in the statewide All Star game in Cooperstown in 1962. He was a defensive back on the football team and second string tailback on offense behind Mel Robinson which he equated to being second string behind Lou Gehrig.

Fab went on to Cornell University, first in the pre veterinary program before transferring over to the College of Arts and Sciences and receiving a B.A. in Government. This decision came when he got crushed on a Chemistry exam which “shook his confidence.” Thirty years later at a Cornell Alumni reunion he found out that EVERYBODY flunked the exam. He played shortstop and second base at Cornell and also played shortstop for the Harwich Mariners in the Cape Cod Baseball League in 1966. He was a member of Sigma Nu (Gamma Theta Chapter).

Any hopes of playing professional baseball were dashed when Fab got drafted by the United States Army which superseded being drafted by the Baltimore Orioles and he entered the Army in July 1968. He did Basic Training at Fort Dix, NJ and qualified as an expert on the M-16 automatic rifle and M-14 rifle and later somehow got a badge for being an expert with the M-79 grenade launcher. He served with the 14th Combat Engineer Battalion mainly on Fire Base Nancy in Viet Nam from May 1969 until April 8th, 1970 . He received the Bronze Star , Viet Nam Service, Good Conduct and National Defense Medals along with a Republic of Viet Nam Gallantry Cross with Palm Unit Citation Badge. Fab always thought getting the Bronze Star and Good Conduct Medal simultaneously rather humorous but learned not to argue with military logic. He was most proud that the Commanding Officer gave him the title of “Chief Thief” for his ability procure ammunition, vehicles and supplies including liquid refreshments outside of normal channels. President Lincoln once said his Secretary of War was “so crooked that he would steal everything but a hot stove.” Fab stole a pizza oven in Danang and took it back to Firebase Nancy.

After getting out of the Army, he went to work for New York State Government in Albany working in three different state agencies over 33 years. In his last job for the Division for Youth (Juvenile Justice), Bob spent three days a week in New York City (and three nights a week at Meadowlands Race Track) on the State’s dime remarking, “They pay me to do this?” He also did some contract work for the Federal Government.

No longer able to play competitive team sports, Bob turned his attention to thoroughbred horseracing and soon moved out of Albany to Saratoga County to be closer to the Saratoga Race Track. Upon retirement from New York State Government in December 2002, Bob moved to Altamonte Springs, Florida. He was tricked into becoming the President of the Montgomery Woods Condominium Association in 2007 and found out he was President for Life as nobody else was dumb enough to take over. He maintained his interest in horseracing and qualified to compete in the National Horseracing Championship in Las Vegas in January 2022.

He is survived by his daughter Shawn Loucks of Longwood, Florida; Nephews John S. Fabbricatore, Jr. of Augusta, Maine and Vincent T. Fabbricatore of Buckhannon, WV and niece Maria Andrews of Buckhannon, WV. Bob will be returned to his place of birth, Ithaca, NY and laid to rest with his parents and grandparents.

Final arrangements will be handled by Bangs Funeral Home, Ithaca NY
Obituary posted from Newcomer Funeral Home, Orlando, FL NewcomerOrlando.com

Birth Date: 1944-02-10

Graduation year: 1962

Deceased Date: 2024-11-14

Obituary:
Suzanne L. Palmer of Ithaca, NY passed away peacefully on November 14th 2024 of natural causes due to several illnesses.

She was born on February 10th 1944 in Ithaca, NY to parents, Frances M. Long and Morrell R. Long and is survived by a brother, James B. Long of Merced, CA and a sister, Marcia L. Britton of Elmira, NY and also a daughter, Melissa Palmer of Ithaca, NY.

Suzanne graduated from Ithaca High School, class of 1962 and was employed for many years at the Tompkins County Public Library, due to her love of literature and was also an avid reader. Suzanne truly was a very special individual and will be greatly missed by many people who knew and loved her.

Private graveside services will be held in Willow Glen Cemetery, Dryden, NY.
In memory of Suzanne, please feel free to leave a kind thought or a general remembrance of your choice at www.perkinsfh.com

Posted online on November 19, 2024
Published in The Ithaca Journal

Birth Date: 1944-07-13

Graduation year: 1962

Deceased Date: 2024-10-29

Obituary:
Loxie Priscilla (Oltz) Hilll Obituary
Loxie Priscilla (Oltz) Hill, 80 of Danby passed away on October 29 after a relentless battle with kidney disease. Born in Ithaca on July 13, 1944, Loxie was the daughter of the late Leon A. and Elosia Oltz.

She was a 1962 graduate of Ithaca high school and a graduate of Ithaca school of Practical Nursing. She met her beloved husband, Clifford Hill at a church function and they were married in 1964. Together with partners they founded many local businesses, with Loxie always playing a key role as bookkeeper. Among them were Hillview Terrace Mobile Court, Power Town Garage and Genoa Off-Road Speedway, all in the Ithaca area. They were also founding and active members of the Ridge Toppers 4 x 4 Jeep club.

She is survived by her beloved children, Priscilla I Hill and Keith M Hill (Suzanne), brothers Melford Oltz (Peg) and Hollis Oltz, step-sisters Janet Miller (Howard) and Fran Enders, sister Beth Wilcox (Scott), as well as grandchildren Bradley Barnes, Amanda Barnes, and Mitchell Hill, great grandchildren Janaya, Jordan, Bria, Creed, and Brinley, as well as several nieces and nephews. She is predeceased by her husband, parents, brother Fred Oltz, stepmother Bette Oltz, and stepbrother Vernon Underwood.

During periods not working along-side Clifford, she kept herself busy helping others. She was a caregiver to many young children, and she worked several years at the Big M market in Spencer, followed by her final career at Ithaca city school district as a bus aid.

Although she did not formally practice nursing, her love of the medical field and her skills were used daily. This was evident in her care for her family and others throughout her life, as well as in her final fight with kidney disease, turning a bleak 6-month diagnosis into 4.5 fruitful years. In her retirement, she enjoyed baking cookies for her friends and family and spending time with her grandchildren and great grandchildren as well as multiple special pets.

Funeral will be held at the Danby Community Church on Tuesday, November 5 with Calling hours 9am- 10am, service 10am-11am, burial 11am-12pm, and reception at 12pm.

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Birth Date: 1944-10-24

Graduation year: 1962

Deceased Date: 2024-09-16

Obituary:
John Gordon Novarr, age 79, died at home on September 16, 2024. He was born on October 24, 1944, in Hartford, CT to Ruth Gordon Novarr and David Novarr. His family moved to Ithaca shortly before he turned two years old. Other than his college years, and a two-year stint in the army, he lived in Ithaca his entire life.

John was a troublemaker from the start. His exasperated mother, Gordy, would take complaints from their neighbors in Belle Sherman about John’s most recent misdeeds. Whether throwing baseballs through windows or getting into fistfights, David and Gordy’s hopes for a proper home were disrupted. He had great difficulty paying attention to subjects that didn’t interest him and enjoyed illustrating this point with stories of his 9-year college experience. He flunked out twice from the University of Vermont, failed numerous courses at Cornell, was kicked out of VISTA, and finally entered the army, spending time in Vietnam. After his discharge from the army, the University of Vermont admitted him for the “third and final time.” He did well. At this point he met Pat Wilmott in the library, and they married in August 1970. Their daughter, Jennifer, was born in December 1971, during John’s period of final presentations and exams.

In the new year, the family moved back to Ithaca where John had previously supported himself by painting houses. After serving in the army, John avowed never to work for anyone else again, and he was true to his word. He began landscaping with John Costello, then house painting, moving to construction with Paul Mackesey as a partner in Novarr-Mackesey Construction, and later had a millwork shop. His mentor, Stan Goldberg (Uncle Stanley), provided invaluable advice and friendship throughout his career. While growing his business, he rented two apartments in his home on Eddy Street in Collegetown. This began the final iteration of his professional life. He became a developer of student apartments. His goal was to improve the housing both functionally and aesthetically. The project that he was most proud of was Collegetown Terrace. It took years of planning and meetings in city hall before the actual buildout. This simply would not have happened without John’s knack for connecting with people and forming long-standing working partnerships filled with mutual respect for the unique contributions of each party. He enjoyed collaborating with his friends, whether they worked on the jobsite, designed buildings and landscapes, or worked in the property management office. It was important to John to be part of improving Ithaca’s built environment for the future.

John was a very gregarious guy. He loved having people over. He and Pat, who shared a love of cuisine, worked as a team in the kitchen. In the early years of their marriage, Pat learned to always prepare dinner for more than just the three of them since John would invariably show up with friends. In the last several decades John would host friends, usually on a Friday, and undercook meat on his Big Green Egg. Friends would fill in with sides, cheeses, and bread. And, of course, enjoy wine from his collection. He so looked forward to these moments.

As a child, John was not allowed to have pets. In the spring of 1970, after discovering an ad placed by Ian Tyndall, John and Pat brought home the first of six Newfoundlands--Jonah, Izzie, Pete, Pancho, Jake, and Lola. Ian, a landscape architect, would become a friend for life. Henry, the Clumber Spaniel, was in the mix, but given the slightest opening John went back to Newfs. John loved his dogs, and they loved him. Unfortunately for Pat he was not enthusiastic about training. As with the rest of his life, he did not want any restrictions placed on him.

John had opinions and felt compelled to share them. He gave a lecture every year in the Real Estate Program at Cornell. He was open to helping on projects or just discussing issues the student or local resident might have. He would chuckle when parents who were aware of his checkered educational history would call and ask him to speak to their child and give advice as to how he got where he was. He never had a 5- or 10-year plan, just an attempt to keep improving his life.

John loved art. His minor in college was art (his major was ancient history), although he couldn’t draw to save his soul. When studying in Cornell’s School of Art, Architecture and Planning, he took a course that required some drawing. His professor finally told him to trace something from the text in lieu of drawing. His aesthetic interests extended to Italian glass and Persian rugs. John and Pat bought their first piece of glass in an antique shop in London in the 1980’s, and John continued to search wherever he travelled. He enjoyed going to auctions in New Hampshire with Mike and Sue Wilmott, Pat’s brother and sister-in-law.

John was an incredibly generous person, sharing his time, advice, housing, food, and personal belongings. Friends would come and stay for days and even years. When Bosnian refugee students came to Cornell, John gave them a place to live. When students were forced out of their apartments because of fire, he housed them. There would always be extra food at his house, and when the Jewish grandmother in John appeared, he pushed food on whomever happened to stop by. He loved to talk to people: at home, at parties, at events, on the street, out to dinner, in restaurants, in bars, on the telephone. He just loved to interact with people. John relished telling jokes over and over. He favored puns of the dirty and offensive variety. Every conversation would remind him of a joke. He became increasingly giddy as he approached the punchline, barely able to contain his delight at the prospect of watching his audience’s reaction.

John leaves behind his wife of 54 years, Pat Novarr; his daughter, Jen Novarr; son-in-law, Walter Silbert; his sister, Frances Strayer; and his grandchildren, Ben, Izzy, and Lala (Ursula), whom he adored. John also leaves behind, or in some cases is predeceased by, many friends whom he cherished and with whom he shared many experiences, including the growing pains that occur from time to time when people with big personalities and emotions engage in debate.

Please join us in celebrating and remembering John at a memorial service on Saturday, November 9, from to 2 to 5 p.m. at Coltivare (235 South Cayuga Street, Ithaca).

Birth Date: 1943-03-11

Graduation year: 1962

Deceased Date: 2024-09-02

Obituary:
Albert Capogrossi Obituary
Obituary published on Legacy.com by Wages & Sons Funeral Home - Gwinnett Chapel on Sep. 5, 2024.

Albert Capogrossi passed away on Monday September 2, 2024. He was born on March 11, 1943 to Anne Belous Capogrossi and Columbo Capogrossi in Amarillo, Texas. He grew up in Ithaca, NY with his parents and 4 siblings.
He married Gloria J. Capogrossi in April of 1965 and they continued to reside in Ithaca, NY until 1970 when they moved to Stone Mountain, Georgia.

He was a devoted father, husband and pop. In his earlier days he could be seen in local commercials as well as tv shows such as The Dukes of Hazzard and several movies.

He was proceeded in death by his wife of 56 years Gloria, his parents and his brother Joseph Capogrossi. As well as grandson's Kyle Smith and Cameron Crespo.

Albert is survived by his daughter Gina Smith, granddaughter Megan (Alvin) Smith-Dzihic, great granddaughter Landyn. Brothers Douglas Capogrossi and Theodore Capogrossi, sister Anne Marie Boyd. Along with countless other cousins, nieces and nephews.

On behalf of Albert and the family, we graciously want to thank everyone for their condolences and other acts of kindness during this time of loss and grieving.

He was a hard-working man that cared deeply for his family. He will be missed by anyone who had the pleasure to know him.

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Obituary published on Legacy.com by Wages & Sons Funeral Home - Gwinnett Chapel on Sep. 5, 2024.

Birth Date: 1944-10-11

Graduation year: 1962

Deceased Date: 2024-06-21

Obituary:
Charlotte B. Mayo
October 11, 1944 ~ June 21, 2024 79 Years Old

Charlotte Mayo Obituary
Charlotte Baker Mayo 79, of Ithaca, New York, passed from this earth on Friday, June 21, 2024 and began her next journey. Charlotte was born on October 11, 1944, in Ithaca to Iva (Wood) Baker and Gerald Baker and spent her entire life living within one mile of her family homestead in Danby, New York. She graduated from Ithaca High School in June of 1961 and married her high school sweetheart, Ray Mayo on November 3, 1962. Charlotte was a caring and compassionate daughter, sister, wife, mother, grandmother, and friend who was always the first to offer to lend a hand to those in need.

In 1989, after raising her family, Charlotte began her second career working in the Department of Building Care at Cornell University and retired in 2007. During her time at Cornell, she served as a UAW Union Steward. She was an avid gardener, and served as a trustee for the South Hill Cemetery Association and was a member of the Danby Community Church.

Charlotte is predeceased by her parents, Iva (Wood) Baker, and Gerald Baker, sister Charlene “Sue” (Baker) Howard, and brother Jack Baker. Surviving includes her husband of 61 years, Ray Mayo of Ithaca, brother, Carl (Robin) Baker of Hollywood, AL, son Raymond (Connie) Mayo of Delton, FL, daughter Sonja (Beau) Baylor of Ithaca, grandchildren, Noel (Phil) Christopher of Abington, MA, Dakota Baylor of Malden, MA, and Devin Baylor of Cortland, NY and great-grandson, Matthew Crouch of Deltona, FL.

Graveside Services will be held on Saturday, June 29 at 11:00 a.m. at the South Hill Cemetery.

Special thanks for Dr. Gaffney, the many wonderful docs and nurses at the Cayuga Medical Center including the ER staff who were on duty Friday, June 14th, the Intensive Care Team, and the compassionate nurses of 4 North. Special thanks to nurse Madi who held us together and showed such care and compassion during those final days.

In lieu of flowers the family asks that donations be made to the South Hill Cemetery Association, 836 Dryden Road, Ithaca NY 14850.

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Birth Date: 1944-10-06

Graduation year: 1962

Deceased Date: 2024-04-05

Obituary:
Robert Francis Wood

October 6, 1944 - April 5, 2024 (79 years old)
Robert Francis “Woody” Wood

It is always difficult saying goodbye to someone we love and cherish. Family and friends must say goodbye to their beloved Robert Francis Wood (Manning, South Carolina), born in Ithaca, New York, who passed away at the age of 79, on April 5, 2024. Leave a sympathy message to the family in the guestbook on this memorial page of Robert Francis Wood to show support.

He was predeceased by: his parents, Robert DeForest Wood and Lorraine Connors Wood. He is survived by: his daughters, Kim Smith (Mitch Arthur) of Jacksonville, FL and Tammy Hart (Bob) of Van Wyck, SC; his nephew Jacob Wood (Laurie) of Marietta, SC; the mother of his children Roberta Barnett of Jacksonville, FL; his stepsons, Tim Metz of West Virginia and Jody Metz of West Virginia; his sister-in-law Enid Wood of Massachusetts; and his cousin Dr. Michael Francis Connors (Patricia) of Kansas. He is also survived by nine grandchildren; four great grandchildren.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to A Second Chance Animal Shelter, P.O. Box 607, Manning, SC 29102.

Birth Date: 1944-05-12

Graduation year: 1962

Deceased Date: 2024-02-22

Obituary:
Doug was born May 12, 1944 and passed away on February 22, 2024 at the age of 79.

He was predeceased by his parents, Catherine Sepos and Russell Hazen, and his Sister and Brother-In-Law Carole Hazen and John 'Jack' Carpenter.

He is survived by his niece Cathy Pace residing in Ithaca, NY and cousins, both in New York and in Illinois. He is also survived by two very special families – Dan and Nancy Anderson and their children residing in Gurnee, IL and Dave and Sharon Franklin, residing in Bellingham, WA. Doug and Dave have been great friends since Ithaca High School.

He graduated from California School of Professional Psychology with a PhD in 1980, San Diego State University with a M.S degree in 1976, Cortland State with a M.S. degree in 1974, Ithaca College with a B.S. degree in 1967, and graduated from Ithaca High, in Ithaca, NY - Class of 1962.

Doug's occupations were all directed around Mental Health. Executive Director of Psychological Services for The Holman Group in California, Director of Mental Health with the US Army, Germany 1989-1992 and a Commissioned Navy Officer 1980-1989. While in Gurnee he was a Clinical Psychologist for the Navy until his retirement.

He will be laid to rest with his parents at Pleasant Grove Cemetery in Ithaca, NY.

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Obituary published on Legacy.com by Bangs Funeral Home, Inc. - Ithaca on Mar. 29, 2024.

Birth Date: 1943-04-28

Graduation year: 1962

Deceased Date: 2023-12-19

Obituary:
Loren Bailey Cloyes, Interlaken, NY, age 80, passed away on Tues. Dec. 19, 2023 after a long struggle with chronic lung disease, at Arnot-Ogden Medical Center with his loving wife of 54 years at his side.

He is survived by his wife, Patricia Ann Cloyes; sister-in-law, Lois Schoener; brother-in-law, Roy VanAmburg; and his nieces and nephews. In addition to his parents, Loren was predeceased by a sister-in-law, Donna VanAmburg and brother-in-law, Ron Schoener.

Loren was born on Apr. 28, 1943 in New York City, NY son of the late, Samuel & Helen Lewis Cloyes.

His career in the retail food industry spanned more than 50 years. Following 23 years of employment by P&C Food Market, he and Pat became the proud owners of Cloyes Grocery in Interlaken, NY serving the community for more than 20 years. In his later years he worked part-time at the Ovid Big M Market. As a local business owner, he committed his time, energy and resources to the community he loved.

He served several terms as an elected member of the Interlaken Village Board, was an active member of the Interlaken Fire Department, the Interlaken Sportsman Club, and St. Francis Catholic Church. Loren was an avid fan of the Dallas Cowboys and NASCAR racing. When he wasn’t watching football or racing in his spare time, he enjoyed drives around Cayuga Lake.

A private service will be held at the convenience of the family.
Contributions in his name may be made to the Interlaken Fire Department, 8487 Rt. 96 Interlaken, NY 14847; The Parish of Mary Mother of Mercy, PO Box 403, Interlaken NY, or the charity of one’s choice.

Birth Date: 1944-06-22

Graduation year: 1962

Deceased Date: 2023-10-21

Obituary:
Darlene Lynch Klein
June 22, 1944 ~ October 21, 2023 79 Years Old
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Obituary
Darlene Lynch Klein, 79, a devoted wife and mother known for her sense of humor, loyalty to friends and family, and exacting opinions, died unexpectedly at home in Ithaca on Oct. 21, 2023.

Darlene was born June 22, 1944 in Niagara Falls, NY, to William (Bill) H. Lynch and Jean Lynch Branigan. The oldest of Bill and Jean’s six children, Darlene grew up in Ithaca and graduated from Ithaca High School in 1962. After attending Missouri Valley College and the University of Vermont, Darlene returned to Ithaca and fell in love with Cornell architecture student David L. Klein. They married in 1969.

Shortly after marrying, Darlene and David acquired their first Afghan hound which started a lifelong hobby of showing and breeding show dogs. A lifetime member of the Finger Lakes Kennel Club, she showed Afghans and later greyhounds, winning Best of Breed with her greyhound at Westminster in 2007.

Darlene enjoyed many activities and passions. She put her knack for sewing and beading to good use as the designer of figure skating costumes for her daughter, and as a costumer for several plays at Elmira College. She loved genealogy, thoroughly researching both sides of her family tree and often excitedly sharing the interesting family history she discovered. She could read a book a day, and generously shared her Barnes and Noble collection with friends. And she volunteered extensively.

Over the years, Darlene had been a highly successful fundraiser for Lakeview Cemetery, an advisory board member of the Cornell Baker Institute, newsletter editor for the Greyhound Club of America, show chair of the Salt City Dog Shows in Syracuse, and co-
chair of the Class of 1962 reunion committee.

But her greatest passion in life was being mom to Bridget and Casey and grandma to Caroline and Katherine. Darlene spent many hours on the road traveling to her kids’ figure skating competitions, dance competitions, ski races, and hockey games, and in more recent years, doting on her granddaughters and proudly keeping up with their many activities from volleyball and dance to flute and piano.

Her parents predeceased her, as did her sisters Teri-Anne Nindl and Betsey Napier, brother William (Bill) H. Lynch II and infant brother Jeffrey Lynch. She is survived by her husband David, Ithaca; her daughter Bridget (Tim) Curry, Stamford, CT; son Casey Klein, Washington, DC; granddaughters Caroline Curry and Katherine Curry, Stamford, CT; brother Timothy Lynch, Orlando, FL; sister Hunter Lynch; sister-in-law Roberta Klein, San Diego, CA; and numerous nieces, nephews and cousins whom she loved dearly.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Darlene’s memory can be made to the AKC Humane Fund
(https://akchumanefund.org/) or the American Heart Association (https://www.heart.org/). Friends may call from 3-4 pm on Sunday, October 29th at Bangs Funeral Home, 209 W. Green Street, Ithaca, NY. A memorial service will be held on Monday, October 30th at 11 am at the Funeral Home with Steve Lawrence officiating. Burial will follow at East Lawn Cemetery.

Graduation year: 1962

Deceased Date: 2023-07-01

Obituary:
David Richardson Obituary
David Sincrest Richardson, 79 of Lansing, NY passed away Saturday, July 1, 2023 and was reunited with his beloved wife Martha.

David was born to Maynard and Lenora Richardson and attended Ithaca High School where he graduated in 1962.

He leaves behind 2 sisters, Charlotte and Lorraine (Eric), 1 brother, Maynard, 2 sons Jeff (Nicole), Scott (Lisa), grandchildren Jonah (Jen), Natia (Joe), Kyla (Lee), Jaydenn (Owen), 5 great grandchildren and a host of nieces and nephews.

David worked as a Journeyman electrician for the local union 241 and Cornell University for 22 years. Upon his retirement from electrical work, in 2001 he became the diversity recruiter for Cornell's project design and construction which had a mission to bring women and minorities into skilled trades. He also received many awards for his service and dedication.

David was a corvette enthusiast and was a long time member of the Generations Corvette Club of CNY.

David was also a highly respected master in Tae Kwan Do and taught a number of students, parents and extended families at GIAC and Southside Community Center. He played for several years in the semi-pro football team the Ithaca Chiefs and won many trophies in the 1/4-mile grad races.

To know David was to love David for his infectious smile and larger than life personality. So please join the family at Perkins Funeral Home of Dryden on July 8th from 10-12 with immediate burial to follow at the Willow Glen Cemetery. There will be a celebration of life at the VFW in Ithaca afterword.
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Birth Date: 1944-08-16

Graduation year: 1962

Deceased Date: 2023-06-28

Obituary:
Mary Elizabeth Hartman, 78, of Lowman, NY, passed away on June 28, 2023, at Strong Memorial hospital after complications from a stroke. She was born on August 16, 1944, in Syracuse, NY, to the late George and Christine Wooster Bruster. Mary was raised by her late stepmother, Wanda Bruster. She was predeceased by her sister Betty (George) Sutliff, and her brothers George, Jack, Jerry, and Robert Bruster. Mary was also preceded in death by her granddaughter Krista Jayne and great-granddaughter Alicia Jayne.

Mary lived most of her life in the Ithaca/Spencer area, where she raised her family and created countless cherished memories. She had a deep love for penguins and enjoyed watching The Young and The Restless soap opera. Mary was also a dedicated fan of the Buffalo Bills and Penn State football teams. In her free time, she and her husband, Geoffrey Hartman, would go camping at Pine Cradle Lake, P.A., for 13 years. During the winters, they would spend time in Clover, S.C., with their daughter and son-in-law, Debbie (Hartman) and Scott Doane.

Mary retired from Cornell University Building Care after a fulfilling career. She will be remembered for her kind-hearted nature and her love for her family. Mary is survived by her beloved husband, Geoffrey Hartman of Lowman, her children Joan Chandler of Brooktondale, Debbie Hartman-Doane (Scott) of Marathon, and Brian (Danielle) Porter of Cortland. She is also survived by her grandchildren Chad (Jen) Jayne of Van Etten, Matt Porter (Katie) of Seattle, WA, Megan Porter (Lexie) of Cortland, and great-grandson Keegan Jayne. Mary is also survived by nieces, nephews, and cousins who will miss her dearly.

In accordance with Mary's wishes, no services will be held. However, Mary had a passion for helping others, and she loved donating to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital. In lieu of flowers, contributions in Mary's memory can be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital. Your support will help provide life-saving treatment to children in need.

Mary Elizabeth Hartman will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved her. May her soul rest in eternal peace.

Birth Date: 1944-06-02

Graduation year: 1962

Deceased Date: 2023-05-22

Obituary:
John Brewer, Jr.
John Wilder Brewer Jr of Spencer, passed away at home on Monday, May 22nd. John was a loving man, and a friend to all he met. He was always willing to help someone in need and opened his door to family and friends, many of whom have stories of their time staying with him.

John spent his free time on his land. Having had an affinity for animals and nature, he could often be found at the pond feeding his fish.

He is survived by his brother, Carl (Eddie) Brewer of Danby, his daughters, Carolyn Brewer of Danby, and Machelle Brewer of Ithaca, his son, Clayton Brewer of Dryden, 11 grandchildren and many great grandchildren. He was predeceased by his daughter Kathryn (Beth) Happel of Danby.

A celebration of life will be held Sunday, June 11th from 1 to 5 pm, at American Legion Post 221, 1231 Danby Rd, Ithaca NY.

To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of John W. Brewer, Jr., please visit our floral store.

Birth Date: 1944-06-02

Graduation year: 1962

Deceased Date: 2023-05-22

Obituary:
John Wilder Brewer, Jr.

John Wilder Brewer Jr of Spencer, passed away at home on Monday, May 22nd. John was a loving man, and a friend to all he met. He was always willing to help someone in need and opened his door to family and friends, many of whom have stories of their time staying with him.

John spent his free time on his land. Having had an affinity for animals and nature, he could often be found at the pond feeding his fish.

He is survived by his brother, Carl (Eddie) Brewer of Danby, his daughters, Carolyn Brewer of Danby, and Machelle Brewer of Ithaca, his son, Clayton Brewer of Dryden, 11 grandchildren and many great grandchildren. He was predeceased by his daughter Kathryn (Beth) Happel of Danby.

A celebration of life will be held Sunday, June 11th from 1 to 5 pm, at American Legion Post 221, 1231 Danby Rd, Ithaca NY.

To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of John W. Brewer, Jr., please visit our floral store.

Birth Date: 1943-12-24

Graduation year: 1962

Deceased Date: 2023-04-15

Obituary:
JoAnn Porter Mulcahy
December 24, 1943 - April 15, 2023

Jo Ann P. Mulcahy passed away on April 15, 2023. She was born on December 24, 1943, at the US Naval Hospital in Oakland, CA, to John and Kathleen Porter, as John awaited deployment as a US Navy Pilot in World War II. John and Kathleen would go on to have five more children: Jim (Liz) Porter, Patricia (Chauncey) Johnstone, Paula (Don) Patrick, Mary Lee, and Peggy Charles. Jo Ann spent her childhood in Iowa surrounded by a large and loving extended family. At 16, her family relocated to Ithaca, NY, where she graduated from Ithaca High School in 1962. Following high school, Jo Ann proudly graduated from the Genesee Hospital School of Nursing in 1965 and loved working as a labor and delivery nurse. Jo Ann and her former spouse, Pat, met while in high school and married in 1966. After Pat returned from military service in Vietnam in the late 1960’s, they moved to St. Louis and together raised their four children. Though their relationship transitioned, Jo Ann and Pat remained good friends and excellent parents, connected in their commitment to the well-being of their children.

In 1993, as her children grew into adulthood, Jo Ann began to fulfill many of her own dreams and passions. She returned to rural Iowa where she had experienced so much happiness as a child. Throughout her life she demonstrated her ambition and gumption to succeed in reaching her goals, and her move to Iowa was no different. There she cleared the land herself to build her home and with the help of family and friends, she collected and carried 54 truckloads of fieldstone to create a custom oversized fireplace. In addition, she opened a weaving studio in town and worked with neighbors planting and harvesting fields of test crops.

Jo Ann would eventually move on from Iowa, heading west to Montana, Wyoming, and Colorado. She designed and built several houses and worked as a ranch hand on cattle drives. Her lifelong love of horses and Western-style riding were common threads through many of her adventures. As much as she enjoyed taking part in the fine arts, she also loved hard work like mucking out stalls. Jo Ann was an extraordinarily gifted artist and craftsperson. Throughout her lifetime, her artistry was displayed in her beautiful hand woven pieces. She was particularly gifted in spinning and weaving and was a member of multiple fiber and weavers' guilds. She was a skilled and talented seamstress and knitter, often making her own clothing and period pieces used in her living history reenactments. In addition to making her own clothing, she enjoyed making her children matching outfits, knitting baby sweaters for loved ones (affectionately nicknamed the “Mulcahy straightjacket”), and knitting hats to donate to hospitals.

Jo Ann made service, philanthropy and generosity a constant priority in her life. Those values were the underpinnings of most everything she did. She shared herself, her knowledge, and her enthusiasm in thousands of hours of volunteering. She was a room mother, a dedicated Girl Scout leader, and worked with Habitat for Humanity around the country, including being a founding member of the Habitat chapter in Boone, Iowa. She was an excellent teacher and could often be found participating in living history events demonstrating life in the 1800’s. Many summers, she spent time with the American Youth Foundation at Camp Miniwanca teaching the arts to hundreds of young people.

Jo Ann’s financial generosity also positively impacted multitudes of people in immeasurable ways, often done quietly behind the scenes. Jo Ann consistently faced obstacles head on, never allowing for them to stop her in reaching any goal. Especially later in life, she experienced many health setbacks. After suffering a severe leg break, she proceeded to join an archeological dig while wearing a boot cast and using crutches so as not to miss out. Due to macular degeneration her vision suffered greatly, but that did not alter her lifestyle. She was resourceful in helping herself continue to live a good life and continued on great adventures around the world. If anything, her various health challenges gave her the wisdom to know she needed to embrace life while she had the ability. One of Jo Ann’s greatest traits was her love of people. She always had room for one more at her table. She was happiest in a room full of family and friends. She loved telling stories and countless evenings were spent full of laughter. She was known amongst her siblings for being the authority on all family memories. Family was of utmost importance to her and was her #1 value, but she did not define family as only those she was related to by blood; there was no limit. Her warm, welcoming spirit and kind disposition made everyone feel like they were her family.

Jo Ann was preceded in death by her daughter Elizabeth Mulcahy Telthorst, her parents John and Kathleen Porter, her nephew Scott Porter and her brother-in-law Steve Charles. She is survived by her children, Michael (Lynn), Andrew (Molly), and Susan, her grandchildren Thatcher, Dalton, Sam, Allison, and Sean, her beloved siblings, many nieces and nephews on all sides of the family as well as innumerable friends whom she fiercely loved.
Services: A memorial will be held at Samuel United Church of Christ, 320 N. Forsyth Blvd., St. Louis, MO, 63105, on Friday, May 5, 2023, at 11 am, with a reception to follow. If you would like to attend virtually instead of in-person please contact the church directly. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to the Jim Gatchell Memorial Museum in Buffalo, WY, or the Samuel United Church of Christ Habitat for Humanity fund. As a service of the SCHRADER Funeral Home and Crematory, friends may sign the family's on-line guestbook at Schrader.com.

Birth Date: 1943-10-10

Graduation year: 1962

Deceased Date: 2023-01-03

Obituary:
Richard H. Gravelding, 79 of Auburn passed away on Tuesday, January 3, 2023. Mr. Gravelding was born in Buffalo, NY on October 10, 1943, to the late Clarence and Shirley Quick Gravelding.

Rick retired as a sergeant for the NYS Department of Corrections. His true passion was music; he was a talented songwriter and musician. He also had a love of trains and over the years he has acquired an extensive collection.

Rick is survived by his loving wife of 37years, Carmela Barbagallo Gravelding; his children, Scott (Colleen) Gravelding, Nicolas (Melissa) Gravelding, Walter Silensky, Karen Skowron, and Diane Murray; his brother, Dr. Michael (Joyce) Moeller; his sister Deb (Mike) Snyder; nine grandchildren; seven great grandchildren; several nieces, nephews, cousins and brothers-in-law.

In addition to his parents, Rick was predeceased by his stepfather, his in-laws, and his son-in-law, Theodore Skowron Jr.

Visitation will be held Monday, January 9, 2023 from 11am to 12:30pm, with a funeral service to immediately follow at 12:30pm at White Chapel Funeral Home Inc., 197 South Street, Auburn. Entombment to follow in St. Joseph’s Cemetery.

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Birth Date: 1944-08-11

Graduation year: 1962

Deceased Date: 2022-12-22

Obituary:
John Robblee “Bob” Howatt, 78, passed away on Thursday, Dec. 22, 2022 at The Willows at Whitney Place in Medway. Before living in Medway, Bob had been a long-time resident of Bedford.

Bob was born in Manhattan, New York, the son of the late John P. and Alix (Brunet) Howatt.

He graduated from Ithaca High School in 1962. Bob received a degree from Massachusetts Institute of Technology in 1966 with a Bachelor of Science in Electrical Engineering. He later went on to earn his Master of Science in Aeronautics and Astronautics in 1976.

John “Bob” Howatt

He was very active in the engineering field. He helped design the Apollo guidance system. He had his own company, Mentor Engineering.
Since Bob had an interest in watches and clocks, he learned all he could about them. Bob donated his time and talents to the Charles River Museum of Industry and Innovation for many years.

When told he needed to address his high cholesterol, he took up biking. Due to his keen interest in learning, he threw himself into learning about bicycles. He could often be seen biking around Bedford and Waltham or to the T station to go to the Boston Public Library to do research.

One of his prize possessions was a Porsche he used for rally racing.

Funeral services will be private. Arrangements have been entrusted to the care of Philbin-Comeau Funeral Home, 176 Water St., Clinton.

Memorial contributions may be made in Bob’s name to either the Charles River Museum of Industry and Innovation, 154 Moody St., Waltham, MA, 02453 or the National Watch and Clock Museum, 514 Poplar St., Columbia, PA, 17512.

Online condolences may be placed at https://www.philbincomeaufh.com/.
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Birth Date: 1944-10-11

Graduation year: 1962

Deceased Date: 2022-10-15

Obituary:
Dinah M. (Wilczak) Collins Age 78 of Ithaca passed away on Saturday, October 15, 2022 after a brief illness. She was predeceased by her parents, Edward, and Esther Wilczak. Also, her dearly beloved Son, Edward Joseph Collins and a Sister Dolores Thompson. Dinah is survived by numerous friends and acquaintances. Also, her caregivers, Stephen and Lori Sedlock of Ithaca, Her Herson Wagner Family, Art Webb. Christin Greven, Rob Longo, Gary Bordoni and Amos Malone. Two Grandchildren, Shelby, and Ethan Collins of Florida. Also, many cousins. Her dear friends and neighbors, Matt and Taylor Fellman who did so much for her.

Dinah belonged to many service clubs and organizations, Including, Ithaca Elks Club, Knights of Columbus, Ithaca Eagles Club, American Legion (Trumansburg) and the Ithaca Moose Club. She also was a past board member of GIAC. Dinah was an Associate of The Sisters of Mercy (Rochester) which helped her live out her strong Catholic faith. She was a lifelong devoted member of The Immaculate Conception Church in Ithaca and having volunteered in many functions while serving out her faith. She was a past parish council member, a eucharistic minster and gave so much time to the church’s food pantry, where she made numerous friends. She had also sung in the resurrection choir.

Dinah was a fiercely independent woman who took great pride in doing things her own way. She had worked for many different companies throughout her lifetime and most recently she was a long-time employee of the Herson Wagner Funeral Home for many years, having worked up until her illness. Dinah will be sadly missed by all who knew and loved her and that personality that came with her.

Friends may call on Tuesday, October 18, 2022 from 4-7 Pm at the Herson Wagner Funeral Home 110 S. Geneva St. Ithaca N.Y. Due to restoration work a mass of Christian burial will be held on Wednesday, October 19, 2022, 10:30 A.M. at St. Catherine of Sienna Church 309 Sienna Dr. Ithaca N.Y. Burial will follow at Calvary Cemetery, next to her parents. In lieu of flowers please consider a donation in Dinah’s memory to Cancer Resource Center of The Finger Lakes 612 W. State St. Ithaca N.Y.

Birth Date: 1944-02-17

Deceased Date: 2022-06-11

Obituary:
Phillip "Phil" A. Messenger, 78, of Myerstown was a beloved son, brother, father, grandfather, uncle, and friend. He passed away peacefully on Saturday, June 11, 2022, at his residence.

Born in Ithaca, New York on February 17th, 1944, he was the son of the late Albert G. and Emma I. (Westmiller) Messenger.

He leaves a hole in the hearts of his family and friends who were always entertained by his one-of-a-kind personality and truly unique sense of humor. He brought life to the party in his own special way.

Surviving are four children, Michelle L. Messenger of Texas, Michael A. Messenger Sr., husband of Gina M. of Cleona, Jeff J. Brown of Iowa, Brandy L. O'Neil of Iowa, two stepchildren, Melissa Geibe, wife of Gary of Jonestown, Gary Treadway of Shermansdale, a brother, Donald Messenger, husband of Janet of Florida, eighteen grandchildren, seven great-grandchildren and his companion, Jean Weaver of Honey Brook. In addition to his parents, Phillip is preceded in death by a stepchild, Andrew Treadway, and two brothers, Richard and Keith Messenger.

At an early age, Phil grew fond of the motor industry and loved to work on cars alongside his father and brothers. He went on to become an auto mechanic, served as a pit mechanic on his brother's racing team, and later worked as the pit steward for the four-cylinder mini-stock class at Five Mile Point Speedway in Binghamton, NY. Phil also spent over 30 years on the road as a truck driver. One of his favorite memories in his career was hauling trailers for the Richard Petty Driving Experience. Phil never strayed too far from the auto industry even in his elder years. Most recently, he worked as a dispatcher at PennDOT in Lebanon County.

You could find him enjoying evenings on his back porch, days well spent at the race track, the VFW Post 910 for a hearty meal, Heisey's Diner for Saturday lunch, or at 'the shop' aiding in the success of his son's Snap-on business.

Phil was loved by so many. Throughout his life, he left an impression wherever he went. He is already immensely missed by his friends and family.

A public visitation will be held from 4:00pm-6:00pm on Thursday, June 16th, 2022, at Kreamer Funeral Home and Crematory, Inc., 618 E. Main St. Annville, PA 17003. A Memorial Service will be held at 6:00pm on Thursday at the Funeral Home. Graveside services will be held on Friday, June 17th at Frear Memorial Park Cemetery in Ithaca, NY at 12:00pm. Kreamer Funeral Home and Crematory, Annville is handling arrangements.
 
Published by Kreamer Funeral Home & Crematory, Inc. - Annville on Jun. 14, 2022.

Birth Date: 1944-07-08

Deceased Date: 2021-12-04

Obituary:
John Wilcox
 
Ormond Beach Fl - John R. Wilcox, Jr., age 77, passed peacefully on Saturday, Dec. 4, at his home in Ormond Beach, FL, surrounded by loved ones. He was born July 8, 1944 in Ithaca, NY, to John R. Wilcox, Sr. and Bernice B. Wilcox (Smith). He graduated from Ithaca High School in 1962 and subsequently enlisted in the U. S. Navy. Always interested in music, during high school he was a member of the IHS marching and concert bands, orchestra, and choir. A talented drummer and percussionist, he played with the U.S. Navy Show Band while traveling through numerous countries in South America on good-will tours. Preceding and following his time in the Navy, he was well- known for playing with numerous bands around the Ithaca area.
 
After retiring from a long career with the U.S. Postal Service, he enjoyed life while indulging in favorite interests including the Cornell Rail Club, attending Renaissance Festivals (where he learned to play the bowed psaltery), and later attending Blue Grass festivals with his second wife Marie.
 
John was a gentle, caring soul who loved the simple things in life and was cherished by family and friends. He leaves behind his wife Marie Wilcox, sister Linda Madeo (Karl), and numerous cousins, nieces, and nephews. He also leaves Marie's daughters and their families whom he loved as his own: Susan Purtell (Larry), Christine Schell (Jim), Amy O'Donnell (John), Melissa Spencer (Richard), and Ashlee McNally (Shane). He was predeceased by his first wife Barbara U. Wilcox, both of his parents, step-mother Ruth W. Wilcox, step-father Raymond Smith, and step-sister Toni Williams. Services will be private.
 
Posted online on December 12, 2021
Published in The Ithaca Journal

Birth Date: 1944-08-18

Deceased Date: 2021-09-13

Obituary:
Daniel Frederick O'Connell, 77, passed away on September 13, 2021 in Virginia Beach after a brief battle with cancer. Dan was born on August 18, 1944 in Ithaca, New York to the late Frederick and Mary O'Connell.

Dan moved with his family to Blacksburg, Virginia, where he played the clarinet in the Virginia Tech Highty-Tighties and met his wife, Sandy. They later raised their two sons, Rob and Fred, in Virginia Beach.

After a career in real estate appraising, Dan retired to the Outer Banks with his second wife, Betsy, where they shared several years together with friends and family. Dan loved time at the beach, playing cards, and cheering for the Hokies. He especially treasured time in Southern Shores with his four granddaughters.

Dan is predeceased in death by his parents, first wife, Sandy O'Connell, son, Robert O'Connell, and second wife, Betsy O'Connell.

He is survived by his son, Frederick O'Connell (Susan), two stepdaughters, Mary Beth Tysinger (Kevin) and Sarah Weldon (Michael), four granddaughters, Page O'Connell, Grace Tysinger, Addison Weldon, and Riley Weldon. He is also survived by his sister, Sharon Dixon (Ernie) and his beloved niece and nephews.

A memorial service will be held on Saturday, October 16, 2021 at 1:00 pm at the Southern Shores Cemetery.
 

Birth Date: 1944-10-01

Deceased Date: 2021-07-10

Obituary:
If death is but the next great adventure, Bob Garmise set sail on July 10, 2021 at the age of 76. He was a man who loved to travel. He tracked and drove across every major highway of the United States, worked a summer abroad in Switzerland, and crashed a snowmobile on a glacier in Iceland before it was trendy. When we suggested he plan a new trip, this is really not what we had in mind.

Robert Spencer Garmise was born to Martha and Morris Garmise on October 1, 1944. He grew up in idyllic Ithaca, New York, playing baseball and sledding with the neighborhood boys, all while his little sister Carolyn tagged along. He reluctantly completed his Bar Mitzvah in 1957 because, in his words, “at least there were gifts.”

Bob cultivated a lifelong commitment to reading outrageously long and tedious books. When it was time for college, he attempted to major in everything. When they told him he couldn’t, he settled for a BS in History with a minor in English from the University of Wisconsin, graduate courses in Mathematics and English from Wayne State University, and an MA and PhD ABD in Computer Science from The Ohio State University. Someone must have finally told him he had to leave school and go get a real job.

He moved to Westerville, Ohio in the 1970s where he settled for the rest of his life. Much like Chandler Bing, no one was quite sure what Bob did for work. But it turns out that he was a Senior Research Scientist at Battelle Memorial Institute, a member of the technical staff at Bell Telephone Labs, a Requirements Analyst at The Columbus Dispatch and Vertex Systems, and a Consultant for Compuware, among other technical positions. To be honest, we still don’t really understand what Bob did for a living.

But more importantly, Bob joined the Columbus Ski Club. If you’ve ever talked to Bob, he’s probably tried to convince you to join the Ski Club. He was also, ironically, a man who didn’t ski. He traveled on numerous ski trips where he happily met up with friends at the lodge after they hit the slopes. He served as Ski Club President, softball and volleyball coach, board member, party planner, and group travel coordinator. To Bob, the answer to the ultimate question of life was both the number 42 and the Columbus Ski Club.

In fact, Bob swept his future bride off her feet at a Ski Club party where he smoothly opened with “I thought you’d be bigger.” Despite Terri not being the strong, powerhouse hitter of his coaching dreams, they fell in love and were married for 33 years. The secret to their successful union was her acceptance that nothing took priority over the annual Ski Club softball tournament. It might also have been their shared love of reading, backpacking, travel, football and Star Trek. She generously punted his love of historic literature and trips onto their daughter.

Bob was the happiest when he was talking about his three children. His overwhelming pride in them as blossoming individuals did not limit his frequent attempts to embarrass and sometimes exasperate them at every opportunity. When TJ didn’t keep up with Bob’s standards for room cleanliness, Bob felt the appropriate next step was to throw his bedsheets onto the front lawn. When Alex tried to sneak beer home in high school, Bob took great pleasure in pretending he hadn’t seen it and spending the entire evening “almost” opening the fridge door. When he taught Ashley how to drive and she backed into a parked car on day one, he also taught her how to fix a bumper so her Mom wouldn’t find out. His heart was in the right place as he taught them, in his own way, how to be responsible adults but never to take life too seriously. His only regret was that they didn’t all join the Ski Club.

Bob had a great sense of humor and loved making people laugh. Whether they liked it or not, no one who sat next to him on an airplane remained a stranger for long. The care package he sent to Carolyn’s freshman dormitory consisted of only mashed up crackers and peanut butter, with a note that read “I thought you might be hungry.” He authored the River Trace neighborhood newsletter, penning his comical take on suburban life. One Halloween, he dressed up as race car driver Bobby Rahal, and convinced his wife to be the race car. He espoused that his humor and happiness were due to his close friendships, and, “You know, that’s why everyone should join the Ski Club”.

Bob was quirky and wonderful. He had a passion for photography, taking great pleasure in boring family and friends with several hundred hours of living room slide shows. He loved country music, an obvious choice for a boy from a Jewish family in Upstate New York. He prided himself on being a nerd and was unapologetically true to himself. He collected stamps, t-shirts, matchbooks and other treasures we’ll continue to dig through for years. Why is there a tree branch in the attic, Bob? He didn’t believe in germ theory or green vegetables, but he definitely believed that elbows did not belong on the dinner table. He supported social programs he would never need himself because “That’s what makes us a civilized society. We have a responsibility to take care of each other.”

He is survived by his beloved wife, Terri Holland; sister, Carolyn Garmise (Steven Musher); sons TJ Gi and Alex Garmise (Andrea), daughter Ashley Patel (Nilesh), grandchildren Avra, Gigi, Autumn, and Oliver, and nephew Danny Musher (Meredith).

Bob hated funerals. So, in his honor, we won’t be having one. But we will be celebrating his life at the Old Bag of Nails in Westerville on Saturday, July 17th, 2021 with an open house from 4-8pm. As a man renowned for hitting singles in his long and storied softball career, he asked that his ashes be scattered somewhere he’s never been - third base.
In lieu of donations or flowers, please consider joining the Columbus Ski Club. Nothing would make Bob happier.

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Birth Date: 1944-02-27

Deceased Date: 2021-04-06

Obituary:
Charles Indelicato

Ithaca - Charles Indelicato died of natural causes on April 6, 2021 with his long term partner, Sally, by his side. Born February 27, 1944 in Philadelphia, Pa., he was the son of Salvatore and Hildegard Indelicato, most recently of Ithaca, NY. Charles graduated from Ithaca High School, class of 1962, and went on to Hotel School at Paul Smith College. He had a variety of related jobs for several years, and in the early 70s opened a record store with his great friend Charles (Chuckie) Wells. They named the store Eddy St. Records, being a stone's throw from the "Eddy Gate". This was an iconic time in Ithaca. Many Cornell students and local town musicians hung out at the record shop, buying, playing, and listening to music. One such Cornell student was Huey Lewis, who sat in the store for hours on end listening to music. The record shop sponsored a softball team which became known as the infamous Eddy St. Truckers.

Charles was a great lover of nature, and of being on the water. He had boats on Cayuga Lake and also in the Bahamas. He was a long time member of the Ithaca Sail and Power Squadron, and hosted many Power Squadron parties on the family beach. He was a businessman and landlord in town for many years.

Charles retired and moved to Florida in 2019 to enjoy the warmth and the water. He is survived by his partner, Sally Sauer, his daughter Heather Indelicato of Des Moines, Iowa, his siblings Bianca Indelicato and Pamela (Phil) Hutchings, and his nephews Gabe (and family) and Luke Hutchings.
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Published in Ithaca Journal from Apr. 12 to Apr. 14, 2021.
 

Birth Date: 1945-01-15

Deceased Date: 2021-02-15

Obituary:
Carol Cheney Wanagel

Freeville - January 15, 1945 - February 15, 2021

Carol died peacefully at home Feb 15, 2021 following multiple strokes, her family at her side. She was born and raised in Ithaca, NY by her parents Martha and Alexander Cheney.

Among her many accomplishments were three Cornell degrees and raising 11 children with her husband John. She was well-known for her personality, which she had a lot of! People loved and respected Carol for her strength, boundless energy, infinite supply of opinions, keen intelligence, and her passionate love for her family to whom she dedicated her life.

Carol is survived by her devoted husband, two sisters, ten of her children and all of her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She will be deeply missed.

Published in Ithaca Journal from Feb. 16 to Feb. 20, 2021
 

Birth Date: 1944-05-19

Deceased Date: 2020-09-22

Obituary:
Ronald David Schmal
May 19, 1944 - September 22, 2020

Fairfax County, VA - Ronald David Schmal, 76, of Fairfax County, Virginia, passed away on September 22, 2020, in Brandywine Senior Living at Alexandria.

Ron was born on May 19, 1944, in Ithaca N.Y. to Simon, a physician, and Grete (Schmidt), who fled Nazi Germany. He was a proud Cornellian '66 who earned a Ph.D. from The George Washington University in 1974. He married Marilyn Strauss on January 23, 1970, in Washington, D.C.

He drew immense fulfillment from his career as a Clinical Psychologist at Rappahannock-Rapidan Community Services in Warrenton, Virginia for 45 years, retiring in August 2019 due to declining health. He was a congregant of Temple B'nai Shalom in Fairfax Station, where he led a Sunday School class on adolescent issues for 25 years.

In his beloved Mantua neighborhood, Ron was recognized for his warm laugh and jovial nature. He was a kind person, always loyal to the underdog: rescuing turtles on the road; collecting stamps from tiny Liechtenstein; enduring the heartbreaks of Pittsburgh Pirates and Cleveland Browns fandom.

He is survived by his wife, Marilyn; his children, Jesse (Becky), Robin, and Michael; his grandchildren, Caleb and Micah; his brother Steven (Deb); and his unruly dog, Willie.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to Humane Society of Fairfax County, 4057 Chain Bridge Road, Fairfax, VA 22030, where Ron found joy volunteering in retirement.
 
 
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Published in Ithaca Journal from Sep. 30 to Oct. 2, 2020.
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Graduation year: 1962

Deceased Date: 2020-08-25

Obituary:
BROWN: David French

It is with such heartache I announce the passing of my sweet husband of 21 years, Dave Brown who left this earth peacefully at our home in North Carolina on August 25, 2020, at the young age of 76. Born in Ithaca, New York , Dave attended Penn State University where he received his MBA. His life’s work as Plant Manager for Libbey Glass eventually led him to Chatham, Ontario. Dave became a Canadian citizen and we continued living in both countries as dual citizens.

Dave leaves behind me, a wife that adored him, Deborah Brown (Wolfe). He is survived by his son Michael (Jennifer), his daughter, Jennifer Brown and grandchildren Isabelle, Sienna, and Tristan. Special loving dad to Jennifer Wolfe (Corie) and exceptional grandad (Knot) to Chloe and Quintin
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Dear brother to Peter and Wendy. Son-in-law to Yvonne and the late William Wolfe. Predeceased by his parents Fred and Helen Brown and wife Karen (Cope). Uncle to many nieces and nephews.

We will miss Dave’s zest for life. His love of nature, storytelling, amazing boating adventures and awesome grilling and cooking. Dave also loved golfing and football, especially Penn State. Dave loved our dogs, Dirk, Dexter and Deacon and they worshiped him.

Until we meet again my Love... we look forward to sharing a Martin with you again at 5pm happy hour. Cheers, Dave!!!

We will miss you so very much, you will never be forgotten.

Any charitable donations can be made in memory of Dave to the Nature Conservancy of Canada and would be appreciated.
Cremation has taken place. A private family service will be held at a later date.

McKinlay Funeral Home, 459 St. Clair Street, Chatham, 519-351-2040

Birth Date: 1944-12-01

Deceased Date: 2020-08-11

Birth Date: 1943-10-01

Deceased Date: 2019-12-18

Obituary:
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Kathryn Morrow Cannavino
1943 –2019
 
Bangs Funeral Home, Inc. - Ithaca Obituary
Kathryn Morrow Cannavino, 76, native Ithacan, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, December 18, 2019 at the home of her daughter, Annette, in Statesville, NC.
 
In keeping with Kathryn's wishes there will be no public services.
 
 
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Kathryn Cannavino
October 1, 1943 – December 18, 2019
 
Tribute Cremation Society Obituary
Kathryn was born on October 1, 1943 and passed away on Wednesday, December 18, 2019.
 

Birth Date: 1944-07-14

Deceased Date: 2019-11-19

Birth Date: 1945-04-25

Deceased Date: 2019-10-01

Obituary:
Paul A. Davis, 74, passed away on October 1, 2019. He was born April 25, 1945 in Far Rockaway in Queens, New York to Murray and Ruth Davis.

Paul graduated from Ithaca High School in Ithaca, New York in 1962 and Corning Community College in Corning, New York in 1965. He moved to Iowa in October of 1965, to attend Parsons College in Fairfield, Iowa and graduated in 1968. Paul took graduate classes at Northeast Missouri State in Kirksville, Missouri.

Paul had a 30 year teaching career primarily in Iowa, during which he taught mostly science to students grade 6 through adult in public, parochial and trade school settings. He was an award winning electronics instructor at National Education Center in West Des Moines from 1987 - 1994. Paul also taught electronics at Hamilton Business College. He worked at Sam’s Club in Windsor Heights for more than 20 years during and following his teaching career.

He was an avid bowler for many years and participated in several different leagues at several of the lanes in Des Moines.

He is survived by his companion of 33 years, Lynisa Beam; sons, Blake (Ann) and Josh Davis; step-daughter, Merissa Beam; grandchildren, Brendan, Ilan, Madeline, Jocelyn, Jonathan and Nathaniel; brother, Steve Davis; extended relatives and friends.

Paul was preceded in death by his parents.

Services are currently pending.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be directed to the family for a cause close to Paul’s heart.

Condolences may be expressed at www.HamlitonsFuneralHome.com

Hamilton's Southtown Funeral Home
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Des Moines, Iowa 50315
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Birth Date: 1945-01-18

Deceased Date: 2019-08-08

Obituary:
David Carach, 74, of N. Cayuga St., Ithaca, NY, died Thursday, August 08, 2019 at the Cayuga Medical Center. He was born in Ithaca, son of Pauline Salvino Carach who survives him and the late Eugene J. Carach who died in 2004.  
 
Dave was a graduate of Ithaca High School and served with the United States Navy during the Vietnam War. In addition to his mother he is also survived by his sister, Gina Carach Miller of Lansing.
 
A prayer service to celebrate Dave's life will be held on Thursday, August 15, 2019 at 3 pm at the Bangs Funeral Home with Fr. Augustine Chumo of the Immaculate Conception Church officiating.  Burial in Calvary Cemetery will be private. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the Immaculate Conception Church, 113 N. Geneva St., Ithaca, NY 14850. 
 
Published in Ithaca Journal on Aug. 12, 2019.
https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/theithacajournal/obituary.aspx?n=david-carach&pid=193614824&fhid=7263
 

Birth Date: 1944-07-23

Deceased Date: 2019-07-11

Obituary:
 
Obituary
Suzanne Alberta Benninger Perez
7/23/1944 - 7/11/2019

Suzanne “Suzy” Benninger Perez, 74, of Syracuse passed away peacefully at Bishop Nursing Home on Thursday, July 11, 2019. She was a native of Ithaca, NY and was a graduate of Ithaca High School in 1962. Suzy has resided in Syracuse since 1987.

During her high school years, she was very active in extracurricular activities, including synchronized swimming and being the secretary of the Ithaca High School Student Council. During her young married years, she enjoyed sewing and being a devoted band mom. Suzy was a mother who encouraged Penny to be active in school activities, work and her studies.

Suzy is survived by her daughter, Penelope “Penny” Beach and her brothers, Dale Benninger and Jacob Benninger (Martha), as well as many nieces and nephews. She is pre-deceased by her mother, Marguerite Quick Woodruff and by her father Kenneth C. Benninger.

Visitation will be Tuesday, July 16th, from 10 to 11 am at Life Church, 7125 Collamer Rd., East Syracuse, followed by services at 11 am and a reception. A graveside service will be held on Wednesday, July 17th at 10 am at Loomis Hill Cemetery, 4069 Howell Hill Rd, Syracuse.
 
Carter Funeral Home
1604 Grant Blvd.
Syracuse, NY 13208
https://memorial.carterfuneralhome.com/suzanne-benninger-perez/3922880/index.php
 

Birth Date: 1944-03-08

Deceased Date: 2019-06-21

Obituary:
Jerry Rychlyk, age 75, left this world to join his parents and older brother in Heaven on June 21, 2019. Born in Hamburg, Germany on March 8, 1944 to Julia and Wasyl Rychlyk, he immigrated to the United States at six years old, speaking no English.

He graduated from Ithaca High School in 1962. Jerry served his country honorably as a medic in Vietnam. Jerry is survived by his two daughters, four grandchildren, and his younger sister.

Jerry and his family moved to Arizona in 1971. He worked his way up the ranks in the United States Post Office, starting as a truck driver, until he retired in the early 2000s. He loved driving his truck. Even after being promoted to a supervisor, he made sure to buy a truck so he could drive one every day.

His hobbies included golf, bowling, and spending time with his grandchildren, especially at Disneyland. He took his daughters to Disney every year when they were little and loved carrying on the tradition with his grandchildren. He was a rollercoaster enthusiast and was always thrilled to visit Six Flags. Jerry spent every Sunday of football season cheering on the Raiders and the Giants. He loved to go to Arizona State games with his daughters. A creature of habit at heart, he ate breakfast at the same Denny’s every morning for years. Jerry was a natural born supervisor. He loved to stand outside with a beer in his hand and “help” with any yard work or manual labor. He laughed hard and often and was loved by everyone around him.

Birth Date: 1944-05-01

Deceased Date: 2019-02-04

Obituary:
Herbert W Marsden
May 1, 1944 ~ February 4, 2019 (age 74)
 
Herbert W. Marsden, 74, of Silver City died of prostate cancer on Monday, February 4, 2019 at his home.
 
    He was born in Syracuse, New York to Herbert W. Marsden, Sr. and Sarah (Hays Marsden) Lawson.  His sister Millie (Schmidt) and he and their mother and father lived in Ithaca NY.  After Herbie graduated from Ithaca High School, he left for Cambridge, Massachusetts to attend the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT).  He worked at the Boston Sleep and Dream Lab as Expert-At-Large and there met his lifelong girlfriend, Gail Stanford.  Herbie spent most of his time as a child collecting electronic devices, TVs and radios, taking them apart and reassembling parts to function as a working item or sculpture, a skill he maintained throughout his life. He felt that living in a college town (Cornell University) and next to a factory (Morris Chain Factory) influenced him for the rest of his life. His life in Cambridge, MA was spent with his friends, The Wasted Lives For Peace. He became his political self there, attending anti-war demonstrations and learning about Marx and Engels and Communism and Socialism. He never lost his crusading energy for equality and opportunity for all people. 
 
   Herbie and Gail moved to San Lorenzo NM in 1972, and Silver City a few years later.  His energy helped create the Silver City Food Co-op, CATS TV, the Boston Hill Open Space, the San Vicente Trail System, and the Graffiti Festival.  He was a charter member of the Mimbres Hot Springs Ranch and a key participant in the killing of the ill-conceived Relief Route.  More recently he met weekly with several of his friends, the ANTS (Anarchist National Trail System), to maintain trails and pick up trash.  Herbie was an electrical contractor and worked as an electrician at Kennecott Copper (the Lazy K) Chino Mines at Santa Rita and was a Control Systems Repair Technician at the Ivanhoe Concentrator for Phelps Dodge.  He loved working with industrial-sized electricity and equipment.  His interests ranged broad and deep:  electronics, electricity, technology, building with mud, politics, industry, hiking, biking.  He built his own home, a free-form adobe inspired by the Catalonian architect Antonin Gaudí.  He and Gail travelled widely, not the least of which was exploring the small towns and vast emptiness of the Southwest.  Car camping in their van in out-of-the-way places was one of his favorite activities.
 
   He loved deeply his wife Gail, son Billy, daughter-in-law Katherine, granddaughter Nava, and sister and brother-in-law Millie and Ron Schmidt; and partners-in-crime, Ed Ludwig and Frank Drysdale. In his later years he became a student at WNMU in the Art Department, taking some painting and many semesters of sculpture.  Because of his great love of the Art Department at WNMU, his memorial service will be held at Parotti Hall behind the Fine Arts Auditorium on Saturday, February 23rd from 2 to 5pm.  If you'd like, consider making a donation to the WNMU Foundation, PO Box 1158, Silver City NM 88062, with “In memory of Herbie Marsden” in the note section for an art scholarship.
 
Cremation has been entrusted to Baca’s Funeral Chapels.
 
Published in the Baca's Funeral Chapels Obituaries
 

Birth Date: 1944-04-07

Deceased Date: 2018-12-20

Obituary:
Constance Natalie O'Connell
Mooresville, NC
 
Constance Natalie O'Connell, 74, of Mooresville, NC, passed away on Thursday, December 20, 2018, at her home. She was born April 7, 1944 in Athens, GA to the late Charles Whipple and Elsie Hulsey Whipple. She was a dental hygienist before her retirement.

In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her husband, Daniel O'Connell and step-dad, Raymond Sheldrake.

She is survived by her children, Heather and Michael Scrip; sister, Barbara Bendzunas; brothers, George and Gregory Sheldrake.

Services will be held at a later date.

Cavin-Cook Funeral Home and Crematory is serving the O'Connell family. Condolences may be sent to the family at www.cavin-cook.com.
 
Published in Ithaca Journal on Dec. 22, 2018
 

Birth Date: 1944-03-15

Deceased Date: 2018-06-21

Obituary:
Edward E. Mente, 74, died Thursday, June 21, 2018 at the Beechtree Care Center.

Arrangements are pending and will be announced.

Created by Bangs Funeral Home.
 

Birth Date: 1944-03-02

Deceased Date: 2018-03-04

Obituary:
Sharron J. Williams
(March 02, 1944 - March 04, 2018)

Sharron J. Gray Williams of Candor, NY passed away peacefully on Sunday, March 4th surrounded by her family and friends.  Born March 2nd, 1944 in Ithaca, NY, where she was raised and lived for 40 years, she was the daughter of the late Lawrence A. Gray and the late Gertrude Catlin Gray.

Sharron was a woman full of love and laughter and gave both freely to her family and friends who loved to be in her presence.  For twenty years, until her retirement, Sharron worked the front desk at Family and Children's Services of Ithaca, a job she loved with all her heart.  She showed kindness and respect to every client that passed through the doors.  She touched people's lives daily just by being her authentic self and was rewarded tenfold with the love and friendship she received in return.  From her youngest days when her father played guitar, Sharron found joy in music and dancing, a love which followed her for the rest of her days.  She could be found singing and dancing whenever and wherever she heard music.  Sharron had a mischievous and goofy side.  She loved to laugh and joke, so much so, that her family and friends considered her young at heart all of her life and so did she.  Sharron also enjoyed completing her Daily Challenge and being on facebook.  She was known to have a sweet tooth or two and loved candy, ice cream, and the cookies her friend made for her weekly.  Sharron treasured each and every friend she had old, new, Candor, Ithaca or online, each one had a special place in her heart

The biggest joy of Sharron's life was her daughter Johanna, whom she cherished, and their love for each other was and remains boundless.

Sharron is survived by her longtime companion of 33 years Harland "Butch" VanEtten, her daughter Johanna Gray Williams (Howard Hertel), her loving sister Margaret “Gray” Hoover (Ernie), and her ever faithful dog Dudley.  She is also survived by nieces and nephews who loved her dearly.  Michael Hoover (Tammi), Tracy Wallenbeck Martin (Doug), Scott Wallenbeck (Leah), Roger Rumsey (C.J.), and Christine Rumsey Kerfoot (Kurt).  Sharron was predeceased by her husband Henry Williams, her sister Patricia Gray Rumsey (Roger) and her brother Lawrence Gray.

Friends may call beginning at 2:00 p.m. on Wednesday, March 14th at Bangs Funeral Home in Ithaca and are invited to stay for a memorial service beginning at 3:00 p.m.  A celebration of Sharron's life will be held at the Eagles Club at 4:00 p.m.
 

Birth Date: 1944-03-01

Deceased Date: 2017-12-18

Obituary:
Sally Ann VanOstrand
1944 - 2017 Obituary
 
Sally Ann VanOstrand
Lansing - Sally Ann VanOstrand, passed away peacefully on December 18, 2017, at the age of 73.

Born March 1, 1944 in Ithaca, Sally was a daughter of the late Thomas and Helen VanInwagen York. In 1961 she married her high school sweetheart, Larry VanOstrand Jr., and together they raised their family of four children in the Lansing area. Sally and Larry were fortunate to retire early and spent 15 years enjoying the Fort Myers, FL area, before Sally returned to Ithaca to be near family, after Larry's death in 2015.

Sally is survived by her children, Lawrence VanOstrand III (Cindy) of Lansing, Bonni Georgia (Jeff) of Trumansburg, Thomas VanOstrand (Connie) of Atlanta, GA and Kelly Gettig of Austin, TX; nine grandchildren; four great grandchildren; a sister, Patty Giordano (VG), as well as a large extended family.

For those who wish, memorial contributions may be directed to either the Alzheimer's Association of Central NY, 441 W. Kilpatrick St., Syracuse, NY 13204-1361 or www.alz.org; or Hospicare, 172 E. King Rd., Ithaca, NY 14850.

Family will be present to receive friends at Lansing Funeral Home, 32 Auburn Rd., Lansing, NY, from 10am until noon on January 20, 2018. A memorial service, officiated by Pastor David Quigley, will begin at noon.
 
Published in Ithaca Journal on Jan. 13, 2018
 
Lansing Funeral Home
32 Auburn Road
Lansing, NY 14882
(607) 533-8600
 
 

Birth Date: 2023-01-31

Deceased Date: 2017-12-17

Obituary:
Roger J. Steinberg Jr.

STEINBERG, Roger J. Jr.

72, passed Dec. 17, 2017. He was a Navy Veteran. He is survived by his loving wife, Bonnie; children, Roger III, Natalie Sullivan, Jennifer Rice, Brian Sr.; five grands. Curlew Hills Funeral Home


Funeral Home
Curlew Hills Memory Gardens
1750 Curlew Road
Palm Harbor, FL 34683
727-789-2000
 
Published in the Tampa Bay Times on Dec. 19, 2017
Published in Ithaca Journal on Dec. 19, 2017
Published in Star-Gazette on Dec. 19, 2017
 
 

Birth Date: 1943-09-19

Deceased Date: 2017-11-27

Obituary:
Melvin James "Mel" Robinson
(September 19, 1943 - November 27, 2017)
Melvin James “Mel” Robinson, 74, lifelong Ithaca resident, passed away Monday, November 27, 2017 at the Cayuga Medical Center. He was born in Ithaca son of the late James and Barbara Bell Robinson and was also predeceased by his wife, Linda Turco Robinson who died March 16, 1992.
 
Mel graduated from Ithaca High School in 1962 and attended Oklahoma State University. Mel was an outstanding athlete and a member of the Ithaca High School Athletic Hall of Fame. He earned four varsity letters in both football and track from 1959 to 1962. As a member of the IHS Football Team he set conference rushing records three years in a row and was named to multiple post-season all-star teams. In track he placed first three years in a row at the Elmira Relays and placed third in NYS Championships in the 100 and 220 yard dashes. He played semi-pro football for 13 seasons for Troy, PA, winning seven championships and eight league rushing titles. Mel was retired from Emerson where he had worked as a machinist for over 25 years. He had been a member and volunteer at Ithaca Fire Co. Rescue Steamer and Chemical Co. #2 and the Immaculate Conception Church. He enjoyed watching NASCAR and Mel was an avid fan and longtime season ticket holder of the Buffalo Bills.
 
Mel is survived by his daughters, Tammy Wilhelm and Kimberly (Scott) Lewis and his grandchildren, Amber, Zachary and Mariah Wilhelm, Olivia Robinson and Quincy and Adyson Lewis. He is also survived by his brother, Donald Robinson; his sisters, Bonnie Collazo and Janice Robinson and several nieces, nephews and cousins.
 
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated by Fr. Augustine Chumo on Friday, December 1st at 11:30 am at the Immaculate Conception Church. Friends may call on Thursday, November 30th from 3 to 5 pm at the Bangs Funeral Home. In lieu of flowers, donations in Mel’s memory may be made to the Ithaca High Athletic Boosters, 1401 N. Cayuga St., Ithaca, NY 14850.

Published in Ithaca Journal on Nov. 29, 2017